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NOT ALL WOUNDS ARE VISIBLE!!!

We all heard of the quote " When life gives you lemons , make lemonade." But my question today is, IS IT THAT EASY TO MAKE A LEMONADE? NO, definitely  not. But we can try because it's not impossible too. To be honest killing your own self   isn't that easy. Just imagine your pain has crossed every limit that even you stops feeling pain anymore. The only things you can see is dying. Nobody will tell you that emptiness weighs the most. Mental health isn't a joke. Every year 8,00,000 people dies  because of it. A 'number' of deaths we always ignored. Before  covid 19, we had diseases  which were killing all of us but we didn't cared about it. We only cares about earning good, looking good and being successful. But the most important thing was to be mentally happy.  Most importantly i wanted to say that depression is not always what you imagine it to be. It comes in so many unseen ways that you can't even imagine. Let me tell you about mine. When i had...

Remembering old wounds only reinforces the pain!!

Remember, as a child whenever we used to fall down and get wounded, we used to scratch the scab repeatedly. Not only that was painful, but also delays the healing of the wound. Our parents used to continuously forbid us from scratching it as they knew that it will only going to give us more and more pain. But all they could do was give advice, right? It was all upto us to leave it and heal or to scratch and feel the pain.     And if you look carefully, this is something most of us do as adults as well. Now, we fall down, get wounded and then instead of treating it with ointment and leaving it to heal, we scratch it repeatedly. The only difference is that now wounds are not physical and the emotional pain is always much more deeper than the physical one.    But, we should trust time as it heals everything. Time heals all wounds, unless you pick them again and again. Treat your wounds with the ointment of love and care and leave them for healing. It's okay to ...

Restless nights

If i go a few years back in my life , It is difficult for me to accept now that i survived all those situations which once i thought would shatter me. Those restless nights, when my body and soul laid numb. Thought of such nights was once a nightmare for me. But when it actually happened it was worse than a nightmare. It even became difficult for me to come out of my room and face the world. I just used to sit in my room the whole day wondering where it all went wrong. How could even i forget that time when the only expr ession i had was of crying. The da y used to  start with crying nd end up with crying only. Everything around me once was now killing me. The things which used to fill my heart with happiness was now filling my heart with sadness. That pain was so heavy to carry in my heart. I became a person with alive body with a dead soul.     People says that " every story has a cost , choose your story wisely" , but with that time i realised that "Sometimes we...

None of us is immune to pain...

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Pain is one of the most unwelcoming feeling in humans , but it always had a purpose for coming in our life. Even the time stands prove to it as it had been one of the greatest teacher for all of us. As much as a bad experience hurts and breaks you down , it also toughen you and gives strength to you to fight.        It is the most unavoidable lesson of one's life. And important because we could never appreciate good, if we haven't experienced bad. None of us is immune to pain ;which comes in the form of disappointments, breakups and failures. But if we calmly think about it, we will realize that it made us more determined and strong enough to deal with anything.              Just remember, that iron is molded and beaten thousand times to be shaped in amazing and strong ships that sails in every corner of the world collecting a big treasure of memories and happiness.       So, never fear pain, as in the ...

LIVE A LIFE ,NOT A RESUME....

Ever wondered that whether we live a life or a resume? Once a university professor asked his students holding a note that who wants it. All the students raised up their hands. Then, he folded the note multiple times and asked the same question. Now also everyone raised their hands. Then, he crumpled the note and screwed it with his shoes. Now the note was full of dirt but still everyone wanted it.And this was because that note still holds its value.     Same goes with human beings. No matter how much life will crumple ,scrunch or squeeze you , you always keep your value. Rather than making a resume, try to live a worthy life.    Our worth is not created by the price of our clothes, our bank balance or our job tittle. Make sure you are building a life not CVs.   In middle of 2009, he was the person whom no body wanted to hire. He had 12 years of experience in yahoo but was rejected by facebook and then by twitter. He had a great CV. Yet, he decided with one ...

MILLION DOLLAR SMILE

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Have you ever checked the meaning of smile in dictionary? If no, then let me tell you. Smile means," a pleased, kind, or amused facial expression, typically with the corners of the mouth turned up and the front teeth exposed ." 😀😀😂😂                The expression one wears on one's face is far more important than the clothes one wears on one's back. Smiling costs nothing but creates much..          IT IS REST TO THE TIRED DAYLIGHT TO THE DISCOURAGED , SU NSHINE TO THE SAD ,               AND NATURE'S BEST ANTIDOTE FOR PROBLEMS....              We all know actions speaks louder than the words, but do you know what a smile says??? A smile says," I LIKE YOU. YOU MAKE ME HAPPY. I AM GLAD TO SEE YOU ." None are so rich that they can get along without it and none so poor but are richer for its benefits...   Here, i am talking about a ...

EVERY SEASHELL HAS A STORY!!!

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Before starting , I would like to quote a dialogue from Shahrukh Khan's movie Baazigar , "ZINDGI MEIN KUCH JEETNE KE LIYE KUCH HAARNA PADTA HAI , AUR HAAR KAR JEETNE WALE KO HI BAAZIGAR KHETE HAI.."               Ahh! Had ever given a thought to these words?  Yeah, there is a cost for every story of your life. Go back in your life , and you will realize that before every success moment , u had experienced a failure moment. Sometimes you would have faced many years of failures but afterwards the success you got made the whole difference.     The person who you are today is because of your past story. For instance, u all would have seen a seashell. To get that beautiful look it had gone through many hurdles. Just like that, we humans also go through many difficult challenges of our life.      Often people who criticize your life are the same people who doesn't know the price you paid to get to where you are today. ...